Don’t we all look for healthy, long lasting relationships?
In today’s society it’s quite difficult to find someone who loves you for what you truly are. But why do some can find true love so easily while others just lead reckless relationships? To answer this question, you need to understand that even though everyone is different, the secret of a happy relationship is the same for all of us.
Without a doubt, a healthy relationship ought to be made of two people who love each other and who are ready to commit to one another. But sometimes, this isn’t enough.
Why? You might ask. This is a really good question. Our relationships are strongly influenced by external factors such as social media, friends, or work. As human beings, we are built to unconsciously replicate one’s behavior in order to adapt to a group or environment. A large number of arguments arise between a couple due to a conflict of interests between the partners themselves and the friends or family. What might be acceptable at first in a relationship, might change after a close one says it shouldn’t be. This is not the way to go!
What is the secret of a happy relationship?
It’s all about trust.
Where there is no trust, there is no love and this leads to reckless relationships. Each one of us needs to learn how to trust our loved one in order to lead long lasting relationships. By not hiding anything of the one you love, you can discuss every matter and get the proper solutions together. As a result, you will both be happier and you will respect each other much more.
I think that relationships should be a breath of fresh air in one’s life, and each person should be able to enjoy a healthy relationship. On a personal note: I think that if trust in a relationship can’t be restored, a couple should move on with their lives, but separately.